What are your thoughts of threesomes in a committed relationship between two parties?
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What are your thoughts of threesomes in a committed relationship between two parties?



If both parties are happy with it then its fun. Its not really my cup of tea, but if both know whats going on and are happy then that is their business and thats fine.

The only thing that matters is if both parties consent to it. It doesn't matter what the rest of the world thinks because the only opinions that count are those of the ones directly involved, and if you're all fine with it, hey the more the merrier.![]()

I've heard that often when both parties agree, they find someone to join them and it's after THAT that all the trouble starts, especially with female jealousy.
I've never been in the situation myself.
...Sparklechick...Queen of all that Sparkles...
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If you are;
friends
dating
defacto
married
divorced etc
all I can say is that if it feels good...do it.
If however you are married or similar with children..its a crap idea..you take a risk with such things that it might all go to shit and if you end up leaving kids with out a parent or parents with them all because you followed your genitals into a bad idea..then I have no respect. I am married with children so all you peolple in here that keep pm'ing me about having a threesome can just give it up ok!...you know who you are...![]()
Being a guy I have to ask... 1 girl and two guys or 1 guy and two girls? The latter is most guys fantasy. I'm single at the moment but if I was seeing someone and she asked me to try a threesome with another guy I'd only agree if we could also try it with another girl.

All theoretical of course - but of course two girls and I.
It seems the close the girlfriend and I get to marriage, the less inclined she is to have a threesome.
What is it with marriage taking the fun out of a relationship? Chris Rock had some pretty funny thoughts on the matter.
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That's a bit of an over generalisation isn't it?
I wouldn't let getting married stop me from having any fun.
...Sparklechick...Queen of all that Sparkles...
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Fun is all well and good but when your thatch starts itching you'll be left wondering if it was the "fun" or hubby's been playing away.Originally Posted by Sparklechick
I don't think so.
both me and my partner are willing to have a 3sum... But we have some very strict rules to follow lol..
They can be fun, but sooner or later someone will take them seriously and then it ain't fun no more. Do what you want, but three means three, not two on one so if you are not into bisexuality don't have a threesome. More than three is just asking for damaged furniture.
Furniture is easy to replace.
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Threesomes are goooooooooooooooooood![]()
right on.Fun is all well and good but when your thatch starts itching you'll be left wondering if it was the "fun" or hubby's been playing away.![]()
People bring happiness.
Some by arriving,
Some by leaving.
I'd love 2 join a 3sum cos I've never done it.
But a short time ago, i read on a research that most people doing that pretty "enjoyable" activity with more than 2 "players" are not satisfied because ,say in 3some, one of them doesnt get enough from the partners.
People usually feel 2 is better than 1 but I dont think the same in the case, 1 is better than 2 or more than 2 or worst, zero. ^^
neverthless, I still wanna try once ^^