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    What are your thoughts of threesomes in a committed relationship between two parties?

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    Default Re: Threesomes

    If both parties are happy with it then its fun. Its not really my cup of tea, but if both know whats going on and are happy then that is their business and thats fine.

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    The only thing that matters is if both parties consent to it. It doesn't matter what the rest of the world thinks because the only opinions that count are those of the ones directly involved, and if you're all fine with it, hey the more the merrier.

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    I've heard that often when both parties agree, they find someone to join them and it's after THAT that all the trouble starts, especially with female jealousy.

    I've never been in the situation myself.
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    If you are;
    friends
    dating
    defacto
    married
    divorced etc
    all I can say is that if it feels good...do it.
    If however you are married or similar with children..its a crap idea..you take a risk with such things that it might all go to shit and if you end up leaving kids with out a parent or parents with them all because you followed your genitals into a bad idea..then I have no respect. I am married with children so all you peolple in here that keep pm'ing me about having a threesome can just give it up ok!...you know who you are...

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    Being a guy I have to ask... 1 girl and two guys or 1 guy and two girls? The latter is most guys fantasy. I'm single at the moment but if I was seeing someone and she asked me to try a threesome with another guy I'd only agree if we could also try it with another girl.

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    All theoretical of course - but of course two girls and I.

    It seems the close the girlfriend and I get to marriage, the less inclined she is to have a threesome.

    What is it with marriage taking the fun out of a relationship? Chris Rock had some pretty funny thoughts on the matter.
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    Default Re: Threesomes

    That's a bit of an over generalisation isn't it?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sparklechick
    That's a bit of an over generalisation isn't it?

    I wouldn't let getting married stop me from having any fun.
    Fun is all well and good but when your thatch starts itching you'll be left wondering if it was the "fun" or hubby's been playing away.

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    Default Re: Threesomes

    I don't think so.

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    Default Re: Threesomes

    both me and my partner are willing to have a 3sum... But we have some very strict rules to follow lol..

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    Default Re: Threesomes

    They can be fun, but sooner or later someone will take them seriously and then it ain't fun no more. Do what you want, but three means three, not two on one so if you are not into bisexuality don't have a threesome. More than three is just asking for damaged furniture.

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    Default Re: Threesomes

    Threesomes are goooooooooooooooooood

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    Default Re: Threesomes

    Fun is all well and good but when your thatch starts itching you'll be left wondering if it was the "fun" or hubby's been playing away.
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    Default Re: Threesomes

    I'd love 2 join a 3sum cos I've never done it.
    But a short time ago, i read on a research that most people doing that pretty "enjoyable" activity with more than 2 "players" are not satisfied because ,say in 3some, one of them doesnt get enough from the partners.
    People usually feel 2 is better than 1 but I dont think the same in the case, 1 is better than 2 or more than 2 or worst, zero. ^^
    neverthless, I still wanna try once ^^

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