[kall]

I need some advice on what could be a life changing decision.

I've suspected for some time now that my girlfriend has been having an affair. The usual signs. Phone rings, I answer, someone hangs up.
She started going out 'with the girls' a lot recently although when I ask which girls it is always "Just some friends from work, you don't know them".

I always look out for her taxi coming home but she always walks down the drive although I can hear a car setting off. As if she has got out of the car round the corner. Why? Is it not a taxi?

I once picked her mobile up just to see what time it was and she went beserk and screamed that I should never touch her phone again and why was I checking up on her..

Anyway, I have never approached the subject with my g/f. I think deep down I just didn't want to know the truth but last night she went out again and I decided to check on her.

I decided I was going to hide behind my car which would give me a view of the whole street so I could see which car she gets out of. It was whilst crouched behind my car that I noticed rust around my rear wheel arch.

Should I take it into a body repair shop or should I buy some stuff from Mitre 10 and try to repair it myself?

[styx]

I'm glad you asked for advice before making any rash decisions.

This sort of situation can go wrong way too quickly, and I wouldn't want you to find out a year or two down the track that you'd gone the wrong way. Now, this is indeed a major issue, but I urge you to think it over very carefully before comitting yourself to a course of action. My honest advice would be to seek professional help and save yourself future heartache, but if you insist on doing something about it yourself, then I must say that you will have only yourself to blame if it goes pear-shaped.

BTW, this girlfriend of yours . . . what's her mobile number? She sounds like a goer

[kall]

Oh, regarding the rash, it has almost completely cleared up. The doctor says I only have another tube of cream to go and it will vanish altogether.

[trogg]

Originally Posted by kall

Oh, regarding the rash, it has almost completely cleared up. The doctor says I only have another tube of cream to go and it will vanish altogether.

The rash will vanish or something else ?

[kall]

Holy crap!

*rushes off to check*

[Sparklechick]

Gary has rust?

fight fire with fire...hehehe...