[JKoB]

LOL

As you can guess by the title i have another problem with a girl. What's new huh? Well, this girl I have known a long time. She's always had a boyfriend but a couple months ago we started chatting quite a bit and then out of the blue she told me she was dumping her boyfriend. We've been chatting alot and Stupidly I told her I had feelings for her while she was dumping the BF LOL. I can't get her out of my head and I want to because I don't think anything is going to happen.

Every time I ask her if she wants to do something, she says she will let me know (Which she doesn't) or she is busy which I understand being at Uni and all.

How can I get her out of my head? It's so depressing and funny. I went to Queenstown on the weekend and had a lot of fun but at night kept thinking of her. It sucks!

Any help would be cool.

[Lina]

JKob, may I ask how old you are?

I think you need a bit of distraction - just how guys don't like being hassled, girls don't either! Give her some breathing room and she'll come running...

[JKoB]

I'm 25. Yeah I've been keeping away and not talking to her to give some distance. I'm trying not to think about any of it.