[JKoB]

Ok, we've just had the easter break and it was one of the best weekends I have had in a very long time. I spent the whole weekend with two of my best friends and these two girls from France. Now one of my friends liked one of the girls as he had meet her the other day. He knows the other girl who was their and I meet them both on Friday night. Now I didn't feel anything after friday but after Saturday, spending the day and night with her I have developed feelings for her and they grew bigger on Sunday. Now I can't seem to get her out of my head but I don't think she's interested. Now the last time I felt like this was when I went out with a girl a while back where I thought she was the one and thought everything would work. Now I don't know if I want to trust my feelings and get played like I did. I feel depressed and don't want to do anything. I'm frustrated and get a little angry with myself.

What do I do? It's not as simple as just going and asking her.

[Lina]

Originally Posted by JKoB

Ok, we've just had the easter break and it was one of the best weekends I have had in a very long time. I spent the whole weekend with two of my best friends and these two girls from France. Now one of my friends liked one of the girls as he had meet her the other day. He knows the other girl who was their and I meet them both on Friday night. Now I didn't feel anything after friday but after Saturday, spending the day and night with her I have developed feelings for her and they grew bigger on Sunday. Now I can't seem to get her out of my head but I don't think she's interested. Now the last time I felt like this was when I went out with a girl a while back where I thought she was the one and thought everything would work. Now I don't know if I want to trust my feelings and get played like I did. I feel depressed and don't want to do anything. I'm frustrated and get a little angry with myself.

What do I do? It's not as simple as just going and asking her.

Was it a sudden feeling, or do you think it's because you were with her for so long over such a short period?

When I met my Husband I knew there was something about him and I had to know more... I knew i'd be spending the rest of my life with him.

If you are looking for 'the one', my advice is this: stop looking! She'll find you...

In the meantime, get out there and have fun! Life's too short!

[JKoB]

Originally Posted by Lina

Was it a sudden feeling, or do you think it's because you were with her for so long over such a short period?

When I met my Husband I knew there was something about him and I had to know more... I knew i'd be spending the rest of my life with him.

If you are looking for 'the one', my advice is this: stop looking! She'll find you...

In the meantime, get out there and have fun! Life's too short!

Yeah it was a sudden feeling. Maybe it's because I spent so much time with her. The thing is I have just sat and waited for the right girl to come along but I feel i'll be waiting for a very long time.

[Lina]

Originally Posted by JKoB

The thing is I have just sat and waited for the right girl to come along but I feel i'll be waiting for a very long time.

I know it's hard, but go out and have some fun and I promise she'll find you!

I know it's the old cliche, but if you stop trying so hard it'll just happen!

Best of luck to you, JKoB!

Any plans for your weekend this weekend?

[JKoB]

Yeah but i've tried that for the last few years. I've almost come to the conclusion that I won't find anyone in NZ.

Had no big plans for the weekend. Just chilled out. Been stressful at work too

[Lina]

You never know... I found my Canadian hubby here..

I hope this week isn't as stressed as last week for you!

[JKoB]

Thanks Lina.