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Huge hugs Sparkle, my heart goes out for you.

Unfortunately it isn't uncommon
I went to visit my nana today (4 years since she died aged 92).
She shares a grave with my cousin who died of an asthma attack at age 17 (about 30 years ago). My cousin had come home to a hot house (it was in November) and the temperature change and stuffiness must have been too much for her. She was found next to the phone and it was off the hook.