[edshuck]

i have two things and they pull in opposing directions.

My dad died of cancer back about '87. We had not been close until the last 4 months. And when he was gone, I would have liked just a bit more time with him. I think the disservice was the doctors who kept him going. Although they must have known that the race was done.

I live in an area that has suffered through the AIDS epidemic. Everyone knows someone who has died of aids. I personally know 50 to 75. When a person enters the last few months, there is no delay, no repreive.

Trogg is right.