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>>>>>My suggestion is get out one or two nights each week to some form of club where you can meet the opposite sex socially. I don't mean night clubs. Just hobby type clubs.<<<<<

Well that's all very well if you're 'desperate' to meet someone else but you're not interested in the hobby you take up! What's the point?! I'm not confined to the four walls I live in and I do get out and about on a number of dates from time to time (although not met anyone I'm attracted to yet!) . I believe that if there is anyone out there then I'd much rather let fate take it's course. Besides, personally speaking it's much nicer to have a slightly different hobby to a partner sometimes anyway. In my past relationships I have not always dated guys that have the same interest as me and some of those relationships were just as successful as those that did share the same interests. It really makes little or no difference to be perfectly honest with you, it's all a matter of 'getting along' together well that makes the difference and feeling a certain attraction for eachother too.

>>>Buddhism<<<

When I mentioned that I may not meet my soulmate in this lifetime, I was meaning maybe I'll meet them when I get to heaven! Thanks for enlightening me though, I now know a little more about Buddhism.