Yeah well we have to meet others and have experiences, because without them maybe we can't respond properly when we do meet the right person.
My marriage to someone who was the antithesis of a soulmate ended years ago, but the custody battle rolls on. Occasionally I get a chink of light into my lonely cell and meet someone, but not often.
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some of us never manage to find that one 'special' person....maybe not in this lifetime.
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Being a Buddhist I can relate to that. Sometimes the universe has a lesson to teach us that we can't learn from chocolates and flowers.
My suggestion is get out one or two nights each week to some form of club where you can meet the opposite sex socially. I don't mean night clubs. Just hobby type clubs.