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Originally Posted by AlsationOfDoom Thanks guys, that helped alot. 
Well, I think I'll give this thing a chance then |
I was going to start a thread on this very subject!
I'm in a long-distance relationship, with lovely lady I met on "another site", been together (if that is the right word) for 3 months now.
I think the hardest part about it is, if there is a real connection between the two parties, is the lack of physical contact (NOT just THAT kind of contact :P) can be very hard.
I had a long and very deep conversation by phone with my lady last week about it all, she craves the closeness that only a "normal" relationship can bring, you know the sort, you've had a crap day and all you want to do is have someone there to rant to about it, and get it off your chest. I know thats what I want too.
I'm taking the step of applying for jobs in Wellington, where she lives, so we can be closer, we see a future together, we have a lot of things in common, but then we have different tastes too, so there is a balance of sorts.
My advice? (I actually came seeking advice but here goes) It takes trust, it takes time, and it takes a lot of understanding and BIG phone bills! But if the lady is worth it, go for it! Nothing ventured, nothing gained.