Hi
I no longer work for Stern Group since June 2002, and my relationship with Elenice has ended 2 weeks before my surgery, October 2001.
When I both the house in 1997 Elenice and I was still in good terms, the house was both in my name, since Elenice had no money ever.
One of my bigest mistake was to put the house in her name, an agreement was made at the lowers office even before Elenice had paid her share, and I made a will living her everything I had.
Shortly after Elenice started to change her attitude towards me, I have lived treats and I got paid with supermakets bills that she accumulated and rugs areas in order to pay for her share of the down payment, and so on.
The house needed a lot of work, she would never help me, the times that she did, I had to beg.
The Social worker and I talked from time to time, she new what was going on with me.
Let me go back a little bit, the day of the party when she pick me up at he house.
After the party she broth me back home,on the way there, she mentioned that she was cold, and I tryed to hold her hand.
Her response was that she was involved in a relationship, and that she believed in monogamous relationship.
I remenber talking to her before the party, and she told me that she was single.
She gave me every reason to belive that she wanted to get know me better.
She asked me about Elenice, and I told her the trues about Elenice and I.
After the party shortly after she told me that her relationship with her lover had ended.
I started going out more, and what a surprise she was there, when she so me she said that she was glad to see me out, and walked away.
Conversations at the office became a daily routine.
She would come to the office and say, things that led me to belive that she was coming on to me.
Things like I such a busy day I dint'd have any time to see you??
She continued going up to the cafeteria more, coworkers started to harassed me, and so was everybody else in the CO..
My health was getting worse with all the stress, I had a condition that is called Ecalasia, anything I ate made me sick.
I couln'd swolow food, sometimes I would choke with water or saliva.
Elenice was getting worse and worse, no matter what I tryed to do, she wasn't happy.
This one day I was lying down on the sofa with pain, I had gone to Doctor for exams, and I was told that I had to have sugery rigth away.
Raquel was just tired of Elenice's attitude, that is when I sugested some time apart, but I knew what she was going to do.
I got go I will finish it later, like I said is a long history.
Thanks
R