well ... deep breath.
Having done the singledom for ni on 25years... and no in longest ever r/ship...that aint perfect...
It's mutual/reciprocal
ebb and flow
for me I try to self-talk that my frustrations are mine alone.. valid but mine and I can choose to alter my reactions.
So respect
chattiness
cooking
listening
ummm just a few for now... human-ness
