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Originally Posted by Bluey and Aquila Dear Aunty Sparkles
Am I over-reacting, Hubby left his ICQ open ( he very rarely uses this program )and I noticed he was waiting for authourisation for some chick in australia. I asked him why it was open and why was he waiting to talk to some girl in aussie, and his reply was he was talking to some guy on there about aeroplanes. So while talking to him I deleted her off his list, the next day I open ICQ and his ID loads automatically and shes been added again.
I email hubby and ask why, he then confesses that he was looking up one of his ex-girlfriends, So I got shitty not because he is contacting his ex but because he lied.
For the first time last night ( apart from our wedding night and when I was in hospital having our baby ) we slept apart.
I am so angry at him and told him I want him to leave but deep down I dont want him to go, but I dont want him to think he can get away with lying to me. |
maybe when the dust settles... maybe he is 'exploring' boundaries of the relationship...
you know DO I / Don't I say anything? It may come to nothing etc... ???*megahuggles*