re: Well I'm single again.... maybe its just one of those things that you learn from experience. or some people learn from experience, I don't believe my mother has learnt, and it was hard, but in the end, you just have to go: well Mums not happy but that doesn't mean she can make me not happy. And she has to accept that Dad is a part of my life and put up with it. We have found some kind of a happy medium now, not a large one but its working...
But yuo can learn from other peoples experiences and your own. I think the most important thing to remember is that if your still alive you ought to be happy, and nothing is that bad it can't be worked through.
And having good friends helps too! i have a friend that takes everythign to heart and worrys wayyyyyyyy too much, but I love her and try to support her as much as possible, I like to think I help her. I hope I do. (Sometimes she fustrates the hell out of me though!) |