(just thought i'd post that in case there's any elligible lusties floating round here... muahahahha!)
but my question is should i get depressed or be happy for the good times we had and move on?
i kinda believe in what i call the "treehuggers philosophy" in that we can actually choose how we are going to feel about any given situation. i have a friend who disagrees about this philosophy with me, she feels the body chooses how we feel...i believe the mind can choose.
granted in extreme cases i think shock can affect those choices, but ultimately i think it's is our own choice to dwell on negative issues and let them affect us negatively.
so anyway i'm gutted about losing my man but my question above was rhetorical...i'm going to be happy, positive and move on. (don't spose anyone wants a root???

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so what say you lot bout my philosophy?
