Dear Miss Penny
You need to set a trap, I suggest using beer.
Invite your guy over (try not to use a guy that's quite strong or he could offer too much resistance) ... fill him full of beer.
Tie him up and put him on a chain run (similar to that of a dog in the back yard). This chain run should run between the kitchen, lounge, laundry and bedroom.
You may need to take your car to a carwash as if you let your man out of the house he might run away.
